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Have you ever felt like you needed to work twice as hard just to prove yourself at work? Despite significant progress in gender equality over the past decades, many women still encounter obstacles that impede career growth, work-life balance, and job satisfaction. 

From pay disparities to lack of representation in leadership, these problems are real — but so is your ability to overcome them. By recognizing these challenges women face in the workplace, you can navigate professional life with greater confidence and work toward a more inclusive future. 

1. Gender Pay Gap

Despite progress, women still earn less than men for the same roles and qualifications. In 2023, women working full-time in the United States (U.S.) earned just 83.6% of what men earned — a gap that compounds over time and has lasting effects on financial security and career advancement. 

This disparity means that over the course of a career, women stand to lose hundreds of thousands of dollars in lost wages, affecting their ability to invest, save for retirement, or accumulate wealth at the same rates as their male counterparts. It can also lead to a slower climb up the corporate ladder, as pay gaps often come with fewer opportunities for promotions and leadership roles. 

2. Lack of Representation in Leadership 

Women comprise nearly half of the global workforce, yet they continue to be underrepresented in leadership positions. As of 2024, women in the U.S. held only 29% of senior management positions. This underrepresentation not only limits diversity in decision-making but also reduces the availability of mentorship opportunities for aspiring female professionals. 

On the bright side, there is evidence of progress. The Russell 3000 index, which tracks a broad spectrum of publicly traded companies in the U.S., reported that in 2024, 9% of its CEOs were women — a nearly 50% jump from the 6.2% reported in 2021. 

Empowering more women to pursue and attain leadership roles is essential for fostering inclusive and dynamic workplaces. To challenge the status quo, it’s crucial to advocate for leadership training, sponsorship programs, and inclusive hiring practices. By seeking out and participating in these opportunities, you can make a small but meaningful contribution to reshaping the leadership landscape. 

3. Workplace Harassment & Discrimination

If you’ve ever hesitated to report an incident because you’re worried about retaliation, workplace bullying, being dismissed, or the possibility that nothing will change, unfortunately, you’re not alone. According to the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Committee (EEOC), as many as 75% of workplace harassment incidents go unreported due to concerns of retaliation or inaction. 

The emotional toll of workplace harassment can lead to heightened stress, anxiety, and even symptoms of depression, making it harder to stay engaged and advance in your career. The fear of speaking up can also create a toxic cycle where issues remain unaddressed, leaving many women feeling isolated and powerless. 

“Women may experience psychological effects due to workplace harassment including stress, depression, or anxiety. Fear of retaliation or lack of institutional support can exacerbate distress and lead to long-term emotional consequences affecting them professionally and personally.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

4. Bias in Hiring & Promotions

Have you ever been told you’re not “assertive enough” for a leadership role? It’s not uncommon for unconscious gender biases to result in women being excluded or overlooked for leadership positions. Studies show that women are more likely to receive lower “potential” ratings despite having higher job performance ratings.

Structured interview practices, diverse hiring panels, and objective promotion criteria can help level the playing field. By advocating for fair policies and seeking leadership development opportunities, you can help challenge outdated perceptions and create space for more women to thrive in leadership roles.

5. Work-Life Balance Struggles

Balancing work and personal responsibilities can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when societal norms still place a heavier load on women. You might feel pressure to be everything to everyone, excelling at work while bearing the brunt of family commitments, often with little room to breathe or prioritize yourself. Without flexible policies and supportive leadership, these challenges women face in the workplace can allow burnout to creep in fast.

Work-life balance isn’t just a perk — it’s a necessity for sustained success and long-term well-being. Companies that invest in remote work options, flexible scheduling, and strong family support systems don’t just help women thrive — they build more resilient, productive workplaces for everyone. 

6. Lack of Access to Paid Maternity Leave & Childcare Support

Unfortunately, the U.S. is one of the few developed nations that doesn’t guarantee paid maternity leave, leaving many women in a financially and emotionally precarious position.  Without adequate maternity leave and childcare support, many women are faced with difficult choices between professional growth and personal well-being. 

Companies that offer paid parental leave, on-site child care, and flexible return-to-work policies see higher employee retention and job satisfaction among working mothers. If you’re struggling to balance career ambitions with family responsibilities, seeking out supportive workplaces can help you succeed in a more balanced, fulfilling career.

7. Motherhood Penalty

Taking maternity leave or balancing caregiver responsibilities should never force you to put your career on hold, but unfortunately, many women face roadblocks like pay cuts, stalled promotions, or unfair assumptions about their commitments to work. This “motherhood penalty” isn’t a reflection of your abilities — it’s a systemic issue that workplaces in all industries need to address. 

The good news is that many companies are beginning to challenge these biases by implementing return-to-work programs, mentorship opportunities, and flexible policies designed to help working mothers thrive. 

8. Gender Stereotypes That Undermine Women at Work

Stereotypes about women being less competent, too emotional, or not natural leaders can make it harder to get ahead at work. These outdated beliefs can chip away at confidence, impact career progression, and create unnecessary obstacles in everyday workplace interactions.

“Stereotypes such as being labeled “too emotional” or “not assertive enough” can negatively impact self-perception and create workplace stress affecting performance and work-life balance relationships. Talking to a professional can help deal with these perceptions.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

It’s important to remember that your skills, expertise, and leadership potential are what truly matter. By challenging these biases — whether through self-advocacy, mentorship, or diversity initiatives — you help pave the way for change. Companies that prioritize inclusive leadership training and bias-awareness programs see more diverse, dynamic teams that perform better in the long haul. 

9. Male-Dominated Work Environments

Working in male-dominated industries like tech, finance, and engineering can sometimes feel like stepping into an exclusive club where you have to go above and beyond just to feel like you “earned” your seat at the table. You might be the only woman in the room at a staff meeting, the lone female voice in a company call, or constantly feel you have to prove that you belong. 

It’s not just about representation — it’s about access to opportunities, respect, and the ability to lead without additional roadblocks. Research shows that companies with greater gender diversity in leadership outperform those with, proving that your presence isn’t just beneficial for women — it’s integral to your company’s success.

10. The Mental Health Struggles Caused by Workplace Inequality

Constantly trying to prove yourself in an environment riddled with inequality and microaggressions can be emotionally exhausting. Whether it’s being overlooked for opportunities, feeling unheard in meetings, or dealing with subtle biases, these experiences can take a toll on your mental health over time and lead to depression in women

“Microaggressions and systemic inequities create a cumulative psychological burden on women. Subtle but persistent invalidation, stereotyping, or exclusion leads to imposter syndrome, burnout, or diminished confidence, and without the proper mental health assistance,  can develop into a more challenging problem. Processing the burdens can help the person become stronger but also prevention work is important to be prepared to tackle difficult situations in the workplace.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

The stigma around discussing workplace stress can make it even harder to seek help. Many women hesitate to speak up about burnout for fear of being perceived as weak or incapable. Practicing self-care ideas for women could help you avoid this burnout and support your mental well-being so you’re ready to speak up when the time comes. 

11. Lack of Mentorship & Sponsorship

Finding strong mentorship and sponsorship opportunities remains one of the major challenges women face in the workplace, considering how many leadership positions are still dominated by women. Without influential advocates championing your work, it can be harder to land high-impact projects or get nominated for promotions. 

Women with sponsors are more likely to advance in their careers, yet many struggle to foster these key relationships. Seeking out these opportunities — whether through formal programs, networking groups, or internal allies — can help you gain the guidance, visibility, and advocacy you need to take your career to the next level.

Creating an Inclusive & Supportive Workplace

While these are major challenges women face in the workplace, there are ways to overcome them. By advocating for yourself, supporting other women, and seeking out inclusive workplaces, you can take proactive steps toward career success. Employers, too, have a critical role in ensuring that workplace policies promote gender equality and that leadership teams are committed to fostering inclusive environments.

Talkspace serves as a resource for women in all industries who are navigating workplace challenges. We provide convenient and flexible access to licensed online therapists who offer mental health support and guidance in managing stress, career obstacles, and overall well-being. Systemic change takes time, but every step toward inclusivity and equity makes a difference. Together, we can create a future where all professionals, regardless of gender, have equal opportunities to thrive.

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Taking a Mental Leave of Absence: Your Guide to Prioritizing Mental Health https://www.talkspace.com/blog/mental-health-leave-of-absence/ Fri, 21 Feb 2025 17:49:00 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35278 In today’s fast-paced work environment, many employees are navigating stress and mental health challenges that can affect both…

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In today’s fast-paced work environment, many employees are navigating stress and mental health challenges that can affect both their well-being and their performance. Anxiety, burnout, and emotional fatigue are becoming increasingly common, and sometimes, the best way to reset is by taking a mental leave of absence. Stepping away from the daily grind to focus on self-care, therapy, or medication can be a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy balance and ensuring long-term productivity and happiness at work.

While it’s understandable to be concerned about the stigma of mental health, taking care of your mental well-being is just as important as your physical health. Prioritizing mental health is a valid, often necessary, reason to temporarily step away from work.

If you or someone you know is struggling and it’s interfering with your ability to perform at work, keep reading. We’re addressing common questions about taking a mental health leave from work, including when it’s time, how to do it, what to expect when you return, and more. 

Can You Take a Leave of Absence for Mental Health? 

Yes, you can take a mental health leave from work. In fact, it’s a legally protected right covered by the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA). The FMLA ensures that eligible employees have the right to take time off from their jobs to address mental health conditions and other medical conditions. The Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) offers additional protection from discrimination related to disability and mental health conditions like depression or anxiety. 

There are two types of leave you might be eligible to take under the FMLA for mental health:

  • Short-term leave: Short-term leave allows you to take up to 12 weeks off work within 12 months. An example of when you might take short-term leave could be after the birth of a child or to recover from surgery. 
  • Long-term leave: Long-term leave lets you take several months — up to 26 weeks — off per year. It can be used to care for an ill family member, bond after an adoption, or get through a major medical treatment, like chemotherapy for cancer. Long-term disability may also fall under the protection of the FMLA.

As we continue to normalize and destigmatize mental healthcare in the workplace, more employers and companies are making an effort to provide accommodations. From covering therapy to providing employee assistance programs (EAPs), the growing acceptance of addressing mental and emotional well-being is helping countless numbers of workers every year. 

“Taking a mental health leave allows individuals to step back from daily stressors and focus on their emotional well-being. By addressing issues early, mental health leaves can help prevent more serious conditions like anxiety disorders, depression, or burnout from escalating. Prioritizing mental health in this way fosters a healthier mindset and reduces the risk of future crises.”

Talkspace therapist Bisma Anwar, LPC, LMHC

Recognizing When It’s Time to Take a Mental Health Leave

It’s crucial to recognize mental health conditions before they escalate, making it hard to manage symptoms. Having an occasional stressful day at work is normal, but recognizing when it signifies a persistent mental health condition requiring treatment is crucial. Understanding the warning signs and trusting your instincts and state of mind helps you determine if you need professional attention. For those unsure how to open up, learning how to tell someone you’re not okay mentally can be an important first step towards seeking support and taking a mental health leave.

Signs that it might be time to temporarily step away from your job include:

  • Persistent stress that’s difficult to manage — immediately feeling uneasy, a sense of dread, or like you can’t get out of bed in the mornings
  • Missed deadlines, especially if you’ve been punctual in the past 
  • Emotional exhaustion that leaves you feeling constantly drained
  • Frequently making mistakes even though you consider yourself detail-oriented
  • Feeling detached from your job or as if you’re just going through the motions
  • Noticeable decrease in productivity that’s affecting how you do your job
  • Recurring physical symptoms (like insomnia or fatigue) that interfere with your ability to function daily
  • Difficulty balancing professional and personal responsibilities and feeling like you aren’t doing your best in either area

If you’re experiencing any of the above or struggling at work in any other way, trust your instincts and ask for help — early intervention can lead to a faster recovery. The sooner you get help, the better your chance is of a quick and full recovery. If you’re unsure about the severity of your condition, there are signs you need to go to a mental hospital that can help you assess the situation and seek urgent care.

How to Take a Mental Health Leave from Work

Once you’ve decided to take a leave of absence for mental health, following a simple process will make the transition easier. The steps here ensure your leave is less disruptive — for you, your coworkers, and your employer.

Familiarize yourself with company policies

Make sure you understand your company’s policy on taking a mental health leave. This often involves understanding how to navigate your rights under the FMLA. Most organizations have procedures for requesting a leave of absence, even if it’s due to a mental health crisis. These policies are vital for protecting your mental health and finding support. Ask about required documents you might need to provide, and have open, frank conversations about the protections that are in place.  

Consult a healthcare provider

Talking to your healthcare provider before taking a mental health leave of absence is always a smart step. Proactively addressing your mental health can help you avoid further work-related challenges. Your provider can supply the necessary documentation for your employer and offer valuable recommendations on managing your condition or navigating your situation during your time away.

Disclaimer: Please note that Talkspace providers do not provide leave of absence paperwork or any official documentation related to workplace absences. For any employment-related documentation, we recommend reaching out to your employer or a healthcare provider directly.

Plan your leave

Setting goals during your leave helps you get the most out of your time off. For example, you might decide to: 

  • Schedule therapy sessions
  • Learn stress management techniques 
  • Take yoga or meditation classes
  • Start a regular workout routine
  • Practice self care, like scheduling a massage

Notify your employer

When the time comes, officially inform your employer (in writing) that you are taking a mental health leave of absence. While you can explain how the leave will help you and ultimately benefit the company, don’t feel obligated to overshare if you’re uncomfortable. If you’re close to your manager, you might start by talking to them before submitting a formal notice in writing. Not sure where to start? Here’s how to talk to your boss about mental health.

Submit documentation (if needed)

Most HR departments require specific documentation, such as the government-provided FMLA certification form, to validate your leave. Be sure to complete and submit this paperwork as soon as possible to avoid any delays or concerns about your mental health condition. 

Plan for a smooth transition

Planning ahead can make a big difference when preparing for a leave of absence. Coordinating with colleagues and management to delegate tasks ensures minimal disruption to workflows and provides peace of mind that your responsibilities will be handled effectively during your absence. By preparing in advance, you can help create a smooth transition while demonstrating professionalism and commitment to your role.

Making the Most of Your Mental Health Leave

As you start your leave of absence, the most important thing to remember is: do not feel guilty. Remember that a mental health leave is a necessary break to address mental health conditions.

Use this time to heal, prioritize yourself, and work toward your long-term mental health goals. As you prepare to return to work, focusing on achieving a healthy work-life balance will be key. Incorporating regular self-care into your routine and maintaining a balance between job demands and personal well-being are essential steps toward sustaining your mental health.

During your leave of absence, support your mental and emotional well-being by:

  • Starting therapy 
  • Practicing mindfulness techniques like yoga, meditation, or deep breathing exercises
  • Reconnecting with old friends and family
  • Finding new or pick up old hobbies again
  • Eating a healthy diet
  • Prioritizing sleep

“Intentional self-care during a mental health leave is essential for promoting recovery and restoring balance. Engaging in activities like mindfulness, exercise, and connecting with supportive people can help reduce stress and improve overall well-being. Create a structured routine during this time, including regular sleep, meals, and breaks for relaxation. A structured approach also helps maintain progress, offering a roadmap for healthy habits that support long-term mental health after returning to daily life.”

Talkspace therapist Bisma Anwar, LPC, LMHC

Returning to Work After a Mental Health Leave

By the time you return to work, you should feel refreshed and recharged, ready to take on your professional responsibilities with renewed energy and focus.

It’s natural to feel nervous or anxious about returning to work after a mental health leave. To ensure a successful transition, start by setting clear boundaries and understanding your current state of mind. Recognizing your limits and pacing yourself will help you navigate your return with confidence while reducing the risk of future burnout.

Consider the following tips as you prepare to head back to the office:

  • Set and enforce boundaries: After a mental health leave of absence, it is crucial to set and communicate your boundaries—particularly with leadership. For instance, you might decide to limit responding to emails or calls outside of work hours, prioritize leaving the office at a reasonable time each day, or avoid overcommitting to new projects or responsibilities. Clear boundaries help protect your mental well-being as you ease back into your routine.
  • Pace yourself: Even if you’re eager to return to work, it’s important to ease back into your schedule and responsibilities gradually. Jumping in too quickly can lead to unnecessary stress and undo the progress you’ve made during your time away.
  • Communicate your needs: The most essential part of your return is being open and honest about your state of mind. Don’t be ashamed to express your needs as you transition back into your role. 
  • Ask for flexibility: You might benefit from accommodations like flexibility, reducing your hours, or having the opportunity to work remotely.

Breaking the Stigma Around Taking a Mental Health Leave

Deciding to take care of your mental health is brave. The vulnerability it takes to ask for help is a sign of your strength. Breaking the stigma around taking a mental health leave and normalizing the importance of prioritizing mental well-being can set a positive example in your workplace. If you’re considering taking a mental health leave of absence, support is available whenever you take your break. 

Sources:

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I Don’t Want to Go to Work — Reasons Why & What to Do https://www.talkspace.com/blog/i-dont-want-to-go-to-work/ Tue, 29 Aug 2023 15:47:37 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=31280 Many people have those moments—or days, or weeks—where they don’t want to go to work, but when the…

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Many people have those moments—or days, or weeks—where they don’t want to go to work, but when the feeling becomes persistent, it’s time to look at the underlying reasons. To do this, you need to first identify the factors causing your reluctance so you can begin working on addressing them. 

There are often many reasons for not wanting to go to work. If you ever wake up thinking I don’t want to go to work today, read more about why you might be feeling the way you are—and what you can do about it — here.

Is it Normal to Not Want to Go to Work?

First, it’s important to know that feeling unmotivated to go to work is expected from time to time. Stress, burnout, personal problems, or job dissatisfaction can all affect how you as a person feels. 

That said, it’s essential to recognize the reasons behind your reluctance and determine if it’s a temporary phase or a more significant problem that could end up affecting your mental health. Don’t ignore persistent negative feelings towards work — addressing them is how you can move forward in a healthy way.

“Virtually everyone has experienced the feeling of not wanting to go to work occasionally. Sometimes we need to take a mental health day, especially if the job is stressful.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Common Reasons for Not Wanting to Go to Work

You might feel unmotivated to get to work on any given day for several reasons. 

  • Burnout: Too much work, long working hours, or high stress can lead to burnout symptoms and lack of motivation.
  • Lack of job satisfaction: If you’re unhappy with your role, not wanting to go to work is a natural — not to mention understandable — reaction.
  • Poor relationships with colleagues or management: Negative interactions with coworkers or supervisors can create a toxic work environment that makes duties unbearable.
  • Fear of failure or underperformance: Feeling inadequate in your abilities might lead to avoiding challenges and criticism at work.

If you’re still asking yourself the question why do I not want to work, there are some other common reasons that might have your answer. 

Feeling underappreciated or alienated

A lack of recognition or support from colleagues and supervisors can make anyone feel undervalued. 

You may feel neglected or isolated in your current job, which can make wanting to go to work difficult. Whatever the reason, feeling underappreciated or alienated is demoralizing and can lead to a sense of apathy. If you’ve experienced these feelings at work, try the following.

  • Address the issue: Thinking about how to talk to your boss about mental health might seem scary, but keep in mind, they may have no idea how you’re feeling. Speak with your supervisor about how you feel and discuss how they might better acknowledge your contributions. 
  • Seek support: Reach out to colleagues you suspect might be experiencing similar feelings and build connections within the workplace.
  • Prioritize self care: Engage in activities outside of work that bring you joy, relaxation, and fulfillment, so you’re not solely relying on validation from the workplace.

Lost sight of your goals

Losing focus on long-term objectives and goals can decrease job satisfaction and employee engagement, making you dread your time at the office. The good news is it can be easy to fix this using the tips below. 

  • Reconnect with your goals: Pause to contemplate and recognize your short-term and long-term goals to rediscover why you love going to work each day.
  • Create an action plan: Break down larger tasks into smaller milestones to make them more manageable, creating a clearer (and more achievable) path to reaching your objectives.
  • Talk to management: Discuss your career goals with management or HR to align company objectives with personal growth opportunities.

Negative company culture and infrastructure

A toxic work environment characterized by poor communication, office politics, or high-stress levels can make anyone want to avoid the office. If you’re in a toxic workplace, try the following. 

  • Create a safe place: Camaraderie can be instrumental in overcoming toxicity in a work environment. Find a group of fellow employees you can bond with. Eat together during breaks, get together outside of work, or create bonding experiences, like a work softball team or after-hours social gatherings.
  • Use constructive criticism: Try to constructively bring your concerns to leadership and express your and others’ unhappiness with the toxic company culture.
  • Be positive: You don’t need to be a manager or supervisor to thank others for their work. What you put into a situation can often change what you get out of it. Research shows that using positive ideation and “finding the good” can change your mental mindset, counter your anxiety and worry about going to work, and make your days more tolerable.

Mental health issues

Conditions like generalized anxiety disorder or depression might contribute significantly toward negative feelings about your job. Struggling with anxiety, depression, or burnout can make it tough to find motivation for work.

  • Evaluate symptoms: Determine if what you’re experiencing aligns with common mental health concerns related to work stressors like burnout.
  • Create boundaries: Create boundaries to help you separate work life from your personal life. You might even consider taking a stress leave from work
  • Seek professional help: Consider seeking the assistance of a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support in managing your symptoms.

What Should I Do if I Don’t Want to Go to Work? 

If you just can’t seem to get out of bed and you don’t want to go to work in the mornings, there are certain things you can implement into your life and daily routine that might help you find the motivation you need.

“You can do many things to rest and recharge if you feel burnt out at work. For example, you can take a mental health day, explore alternative work opportunities, and communicate with your supervisor to better fit your job tasks and career goals. Practicing self care, such as getting enough sleep, eating healthier foods, exercising, and relaxing, are a few other tips that can help you. Seeking out professional counseling can help you increase your job satisfaction and improve your well-being.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Self-reflection and understanding the source of your feelings

Take a moment to reflect on why you’re feeling this way. Are you feeling burdened, unvalued, or having difficulty with psychological well-being? 

Understanding the root cause of your dread can help you determine what changes you need to make to feel more comfortable at work. 

Ask yourself the following questions:

  • Are specific job aspects causing stress or discomfort?
  • Do you feel overwhelmed at work with all your responsibilities?
  • Is there a lack of support from colleagues or management?
  • Are personal issues affecting your motivation?

Seek professional help

If your feelings continue or intensify, it might be time to consult a mental health professional experienced in career-related stress. Check out online therapy platforms like Talkspace for easy access to licensed therapists who can guide you through managing workplace challenges and improving your overall mental well-being.

Strategies for regaining your love for your job

Consider why you may feel unmotivated to work and get help if needed. Pause and contemplate why you’re having these feelings, and if necessary, ask leadership for support. Some things that might help you find joy in your work again can include:

  • Set and enforce firm boundaries so you don’t feel taken advantage of
  • Ask for help if you’re overwhelmed
  • Ask for a salary increase
  • Take a vacation
  • Take breaks throughout your day — try going for a quick walk or regularly getting out of your office for a few minutes
  • Workout before heading to work in the mornings
  • Create small rewards that you can work toward during your day, so you have something to look forward to
  • Start a gratitude journal in the mornings before you go to work
  • Recognize your accomplishments

Take a mental health day

Take a break from work to focus on activities that bring rejuvenation and peace of mind — taking a mental health day when needed can prevent further deterioration of your well-being due to workplace stress

Recharge and self care tips

If you can’t get a day off, prioritize self care during your off time and learn how to destress after work

  • Get enough sleep to ensure each night
  • Engage in physical activity to reduce stress
  • Practice mindfulness meditation for mental clarity and relaxation

Envision your career path

Sometimes not wanting to go to work is the result of feeling stuck. If you feel like you don’t have a path forward or you’ve been stagnant in your job for some time, envision the career path you want. It might help you feel motivated and like you actually want to work towards your goals so you can get to that next level. 

Try discussing your goals for your future with your boss. You can also consider signing up for classes or taking other steps to advance your career.

Embrace the Journey Towards Job Satisfaction 

Online therapy platforms like Talkspace provide convenient and affordable access to professional support that can guide you through challenging times when you feel like you don’t want to go to work or when work feels like a chore. With the right tools, you can learn how to identify where your work stress is coming from and overcome it. 

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How to Deal with Micromanagers at Work https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-micromanagers/ Fri, 25 Aug 2023 12:44:00 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=31252 Micromanagers can feel like the worst people to work with, especially in the ever-demanding “hustle culture”. They often…

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Micromanagers can feel like the worst people to work with, especially in the ever-demanding “hustle culture”. They often hover, critique everything, and eagerly watch every move. Micromanagement can be toxic, decreasing employee morale and overall job dissatisfaction. A recent survey found that an astonishing 64% of people felt micromanaged while working remotely in 2020. To make the working relationship even more frustrating, many micromanagers want things done exactly their way, but they offer little-to-no support, guidance, or feedback. This can make doing your job incredibly stressful, as you’re expected to do things to a certain standard but may not know what that benchmark is. 

If you work for or with a micromanager, learning to cope with their leadership style is going to be crucial if you want to maintain a healthy workspace. Understanding the perspective and triggers of someone who micromanages can help you begin. It can let you build trust, promote open communication, meet expectations, and create an overall more positive working relationship. Navigating the complexities of dealing with micromanagers at work is challenging, but it is possible, as long as you have the right tools in place.

Keep reading to explore the reasons behind this toxic management style and learn how to deal with micromanagers in your workplace. 

Why Is Micromanagement Toxic?

Micromanagement is a management style that involves closely observing, controlling, and scrutinizing every aspect of employees’ work, but it’s not an effective tactic. In fact, it’s a toxic work environment and can have a rippling negative effect organization-wide, not just individual employee performance and employee well-being. Knowing how to deal with a micromanaging boss will take time, but it’s worth the time you invest. There are some major downsides to the micromanagement style. 

Impact on employee mental health

Micromanaging not only increases feelings of stress, depression, and anxiety at work, but can also lead to burnout, making people feel undervalued and untrusted in their abilities. Learning how to avoid burnout is essential in maintaining your mental health and ensuring consistent performance at work.

Hindered professional growth

It’s common for micromanagers to stifle creativity and hinder problem-solving, leaving little opportunity for personal development.

Negative effects on team dynamics

Micromanagement creates an unproductive environment that can lead to poor team dynamics and make employees less likely to collaborate with one another or contribute valuable ideas.

Inefficiency in management time allocation

Most micromanagers waste time overseeing small details rather than being productive elsewhere within the organization on things like strategic planning or fostering client relationships.

“No one likes to be told what to do all the time. Micromanaging stifles growth, brings down workplace morale, and minimizes productivity by taking the focus off the work task and placing it on the employee. Micromanagers create a toxic environment that causes stress on the employee which can cause them to lose faith in their work, themselves, and their skills. Micromanagers are never satisfied, because it’s usually more about the inadequacy of the boss than the employee.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, Ph.D., LCSW

6 Effective Ways to Deal with a Micromanager

Micromanaging can lead you to feel stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed at work. Learning how to deal with micromanagers isn’t always easy, but with the right tips you can master it. 

“Start a dialogue. Speak to your boss. Explain to your manager how their micromanagement affects your performance and overall work processes. You may want to approach your teammates for guidance and suggestions. If you’re being micromanaged, likely, your colleagues are too. Reach out to your peers and discuss approaching your boss together.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, Ph.D., LCSW

1. Build trust with your manager

Micromanagers often have trust issues which feed their urge to try and control every aspect of their employees’ work. It can be essential for company culture to build trust to help you deal with micromanaging tendencies. To build trust, you can:

  • Show competence and reliability: Deliver high-quality work on time and show your ability to handle tasks independently.
  • Communicate effectively: Keep your manager informed about your progress and any challenges you face so they can learn to trust you and your abilities.
  • Be proactive in problem-solving: Address issues promptly and offer solutions rather than waiting for your manager to step in.
  • Acknowledge feedback positively: Show appreciation for feedback while demonstrating how you’ll apply it moving forward.

2. Understand your manager’s perspective and triggers

It can be draining and challenging to deal with a difficult boss or a micromanaging work environment, often leading to burnout. Taking the time to understand their perspective and motivation can eventually help you work together more effectively. When you understand what drives a micromanager’s actions, you can adapt, reducing friction in the workplace and improving productivity. To understand their perspective and triggers:

  • Identify their triggers: Try to recognize what sets them off so you can anticipate their needs and concerns and reduce their desire to constantly supervise you.
  • Uncover their motivations: Micromanagers often have underlying fears or insecurities that drive micromanaging behavior. When you know what motivates them, you can show empathy or tailor your approach.
  • Analyze past interactions: Reflect on previous interactions with your micromanaging boss. Use those situations as examples and start addressing potential issues before they escalate.

3. Be proactive and think ahead

Being proactive can decrease the strain this behavior has on your emotional well-being. It’s one way you can learn how to deal with a micromanaging boss. Think ahead and be proactive by:

  • Creating a plan: Develop a clear plan for completing tasks or projects, including deadlines, milestones, and resources needed. Share your plan so your manager knows what to expect.
  • Solving problems early: Address any issues or obstacles as soon as possible rather than waiting for your manager to step in.
  • Showing initiative: Look for opportunities to suggest improvements or take on additional responsibilities without being asked.

4. Promote open and candid feedback

Accepting feedback, and being willing to give it yourself, can foster communication in the relationship, building trust and creating a more positive environment. This open communication can also provide a safe platform for discussing sensitive topics, like how to talk to your boss about mental health. To promote feedback:

  • Initiate regular check-ins: Schedule periodic meetings to discuss project progress, address issues, or share concerns.
  • Ask for clarification: Don’t hesitate to ask for clarification if you’re unsure about the reasoning behind certain decisions or instructions from your manager.
  • Provide solutions: Come prepared with potential solutions when discussing challenges or problems.
  • Welcome feedback from others: Encourage colleagues to share their thoughts on how things are going within the team or department.

5. Understand and meet expectations

It’s essential to fully understand and meet the expectations of your micromanaging boss. To do this, make sure you take the time you need to grasp what’s being asked of you, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. To ensure you’re able to meet expectations:

  • Clarify goals: Ask questions to understand your manager’s vision and goals for you and the team.
  • Set realistic deadlines: Agree on reasonable timelines and negotiate extensions if necessary.
  • Take ownership: Take ownership of projects from start to finish to demonstrate your ability to manage tasks independently.

6. Suggest an accountability system

Suggesting an accountability system can alleviate stress, build trust, and allow for more autonomy while keeping your micromanager boss informed. To put an accountability system in place:

  • Propose the idea: Approach your boss to suggest implementing an accountability system.
  • Create a plan: Develop a detailed plan that outlines tasks, deadlines, and milestones.
  • Establish checkpoints: Schedule regular check-ins or meetings to discuss progress and address concerns.

Seek Professional Advice with Talkspace

If a micromanagement leadership style at work is taking a toll on you, Talkspace can provide professional guidance to help you navigate the situation. Learn how to deal with micromanagers from an experienced therapist through an online therapy platform that offers convenient, affordable, and easily accessible mental health support.

Talkspace therapists are experienced in helping people navigate difficult workplace situations — like dealing with micromanagers. They can help you set and enforce boundaries, improve communication skills, build self-confidence, and develop stress management strategies.

By engaging in therapy, you’ll have the opportunity to discuss your experiences openly and honestly while receiving valuable insights about handling challenging workplace dynamics.

Don’t let the stress of a micromanager overwhelm you — get assistance now and take charge of your emotional health and professional life.

Sources:

1. Alsop T. Employees micromanaged when remote working by country 2020. Statista. February 1, 2022. Accessed June 2, 2023. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1196504/employees-micromanaged-when-remote-working-by-country/.  

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How to Cope with Being Laid Off https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-being-laid-off/ Wed, 28 Jun 2023 14:58:52 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=30839 Getting laid off can be a devastating experience, but it doesn’t have to define you. It’s essential to…

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Getting laid off can be a devastating experience, but it doesn’t have to define you. It’s essential to recognize that being dismissed from your work is not an indicator of your character. Job cuts can cause workers emotional and physical reactions, including anxiety, fear, feelings of worthlessness, headaches, sleep disturbance, and changes in weight. 

Knowing how to deal with being laid off means acknowledging and accepting any anger, sadness, or fear that may arise — then moving on and focusing on what comes next. These feelings can be hard to manage, but turning to friends, family or online therapy can help you get through this difficult time.

Understand that it’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions after being laid off. It’s never easy, but with the right attitude and a healthy mindset, it can be an opportunity for growth. Don’t let the dismissal get you down — let’s explore some tips on managing your feelings during this time. 

Top 8 tips for how to deal with emotions after a layoff

  1. Acknowledge your feelings
  2. Try not to take it personally
  3. Be kind to yourself
  4. Talk to a therapist
  5. Avoid unhealthy coping skills
  6. Adopt a new outlook
  7. Don’t burn yourself out looking for a new job
  8. Be open to new experiences

1. Acknowledge Your Feelings

A big part of knowing how to handle being laid off is learning to acknowledge and process your feelings rather than trying to ignore or push them away. Doing so will help you move forward in a healthy manner.

The first step is accepting that it’s okay to feel sad, angry, scared, frustrated, or any other emotion that comes up for you. You may even feel multiple emotions at once — rest assured, this is normal.  

It might be helpful to talk about your feelings with someone who understands what you’re going through. This could be a friend or family member, therapist, support group leader, or another professional. Talking about your experiences can offer insight into why certain emotions come up.

2. Try Not to Take It Personally

It can be tempting to take the news personally when you’ve been laid off, which can contribute to layoff anxiety. You may feel like you failed or that your employer doesn’t value your contributions, which may cause anxiety about going back to work. It’s important to remember, though, that a layoff doesn’t necessarily reflect who you are as an employee or even a person. Layoffs are often due to a number of reasons that have nothing to do with affected employees or their performance.

“Allow yourself some time to absorb what has happened and to deal with the initial emotional reactions you and significant others might have. It’s not a matter of personal failure to lose one’s job due to cutbacks.”

Talkspace Therapist Famous Erwin, LMHC, LPC

3. Be Kind to Yourself

It’s easy to be hard on yourself when laid off, but it won’t help. Criticizing yourself can exacerbate feelings of hopelessness, making it even more difficult to manage the situation. Instead, focus on being kind to yourself during this difficult time. Take this time you have to practice self care, especially if you felt overwhelmed at work before the layoff. 

  • Partake in activities that spark joy: When you can, try to take a break from work-related activities like job searching or networking. Make an effort to engage in activities that bring you joy, like going for a walk outdoors, playing music, or flipping through a novel. Giving yourself an escape from stressors is crucial for you to recuperate and reorient.
  • Reinforce positive thinking: Be mindful of how you talk about yourself, too — don’t let negative thoughts take over. When unhealthy or unhelpful thoughts arise, try returning with positive affirmations such as “I am capable of finding another job” or “I will get through this tough period.” You may find it helpful to write these mantras down and keep them somewhere visible so you can refer back to them as needed.

4. Talk to a Therapist

Coping with the sudden loss of a job can be overwhelming. Though it may be understandable if you’re experiencing negative emotions in response to a job loss, dwelling on these feelings for too long without seeking professional assistance is not beneficial.

Consulting a mental health professional can be helpful if you want to express and understand your feelings so you can develop effective ways to manage emotions and make progress.

5. Avoid Unhealthy Coping Skills

Knowing how to cope with being laid off can be difficult, and finding healthy ways to manage your emotions is important. Unhealthy coping skills such as excessive drinking or drug use might provide temporary relief, but they’ll ultimately make the situation worse. 

Tips for avoiding unhealthy coping strategies after a job loss:

  • Find your triggers: Identifying your triggers can help you manage them. If you know that certain people, places, or activities tend to lead you toward unhealthy behaviors, avoid or limit your exposure to them.
  • Look for alternatives: When faced with an urge for unhealthy behavior, take a few moments to think of alternative options that can provide similar benefits without negative consequences. For example, instead of having a drink when stressed out, try going for a walk or talking with someone you trust.
  • Get support: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who understand what you’re going through and won’t encourage bad habits. Having somebody there who listens without judgment can be incredibly helpful during this time of transition. Consider seeking professional help from a therapist who can offer advice on dealing with stress in healthy ways as you look for new employment opportunities.

“Spend time with people who are confident in you and your future and have positively worked through their crises. Share thoughts and feelings in a support group.”

Talkspace Therapist  Famous Erwin, LMHC, LPC

6. Adopt a New Outlook

Feeling disheartened is a normal reaction to being let go from a job, but instead of letting your circumstances define you, try adopting a new outlook on life. This helps you stay positive and motivated while searching for new employment opportunities.

Reflecting objectively on what happened in your last job might help you learn from the experience. It can be tough to assess a situation that caused such an emotional toll, but looking back and recognizing why things unfolded as they did can lend insight into how to best move forward.

7. Don’t Burn Yourself Out Looking for a New Job

Of course, you want to find a new job as soon as possible — especially if you’re feeling stressed about lost income. However, you mustn’t burn yourself out in the job search process. As important as securing a new job is, don’t forget to take care of yourself and be mindful of how much time you devote to your search.

As a job seeker, it can be tempting to spend hours scrolling through job postings or networking with contacts or prospective employers to land an interview. While finding the next role is important, try not to become overwhelmed by the task. 

On your new job search, set reasonable daily goals and don’t forget to take breaks throughout the day — even if they’re short ones.  

8. Be Open to New Experiences

Being open to new experiences can help you figure out how to cope with layoff anxiety and depression as you work to find new opportunities and move forward on your career path. This may be difficult, especially if you feel you were wrongfully terminated or weren’t given enough notice about your job ending. Dwelling on these negative thoughts won’t do any good, though — instead, try to focus on things you can change and look forward to a healthy work-life balance on the horizon.

Get Support Through Talkspace

Talkspace is an online therapy platform that supports anyone dealing with stressors in life, including job loss and layoffs. If you need help learning how to deal with being laid off, Talkspace offers a safe, secure environment for you to discuss your feelings and concerns without fear of judgment or stigma. Talkspace allows users to work with professional therapists who are experienced in managing the psychological repercussions of job loss.

The Talkspace platform includes tools such as video chat, messaging, text-based communication, and audio recordings to allow you to communicate however you feel most comfortable. You can even access personalized therapy from mental health professionals so you can learn how to deal with layoffs, coping strategies for your mental health, and more.

Sources:

  1. Coping with the emotional impact of a layoff. Stanford | Faculty Staff Help Center. https://helpcenter.stanford.edu/resources/work-related-resources/coping-emotional-impact-layoff. Accessed March 24, 2023. 

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What is an Employee Assistance Program (EAP)? https://www.talkspace.com/blog/what-is-eap/ Sun, 21 May 2023 19:20:58 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=30422 Updated 03/21/24 What is EAP? Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) are a valuable resource for both employees and employers.…

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What is EAP? Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) are a valuable resource for both employees and employers. EAP services are funded by employers to provide a confidential way for employees to get guidance on personal or professional life matters. Services can include employee needs like counseling, work/life balance programs, financial aid, and even legal advice. EAPs are now more convenient than ever, with a plethora of online therapy options included to help improve employee well-being and mental health.

By utilizing the resources provided by the external EAP provider, both employees and employers can benefit from improvements in mental health, whether it be due to stress, relationship issues, being overwhelmed at work, or other workplace issues. In turn, this will lead to increased productivity, work performance, and overall employee well-being.

Learn why an estimated 79% of employers offer EAP programs, and how you can start or take advantage of one in your workplace.

How Does an EAP Work?

An EAP is essentially a workplace initiative that offers employees confidential, professional aid for personal and work-related issues. By providing access to counseling services, financial resources, legal advice, and other forms of support that address employee needs, EAPs can help improve:

  • Employee health
  • Productivity
  • Morale
  • Engagement

What types of employee benefits do they offer? The main objective of an EAP benefit is to proactively deal with life and health issues before they become too disruptive.

When employees have prompt, accessible, and convenient access to support and mental healthcare, experts, life coaches, and other providers, they can tackle virtually any problem quickly, before it has a chance to take a toll on job performance or quality of life.

What’s Included in an EAP?

Employer-funded assistance programs offer extensive resources for employees and their families to address concerns and facilitate well-being.

EAPs might include things like:

  • Employee education
  • Individual assessments
  • Organizational assessments
  • Management consultation
  • In-person or online therapy
  • Referrals to treatment
  • Short-term counseling sessions
  • Mental health counseling to combat depression and anxiety
  • Substance abuse prevention and treatment
  • Financial guidance
  • Legal advice
  • Family/relationship coaching
  • Nutrition education
  • Career development opportunities
  • Stress management strategies
  • Employee wellness activities like yoga classes or mindfulness training courses
  • 24-hour crisis intervention hotlines

*Note: Services can vary — plans may not include everything here, or they may offer additional benefits not listed.

Benefits of EAPs

Employee Assistance Programs offer a broad spectrum of benefits that serve both employees and employers, fostering a healthier, more productive work environment. 

Below, we explore how EAPs offer tailored advantages to different stakeholders within an organization.

For employees

EAPs act as a bridge to essential well-being resources, equipping employees with the tools they need to navigate life’s complexities. This foundational support fosters a resilient and adaptable workforce, prepared to tackle personal and professional challenges with confidence.

Enhanced mental health support

EAPs provide critical access to mental health services, including counseling and therapy, which can help employees manage stress, anxiety, and depression. This proactive approach to mental health can help employees manage personal and professional challenges more effectively, contributing to overall well-being.

Improved work-life balance

With services ranging from financial planning assistance to family counseling, EAPs help employees achieve a healthier work-life balance. This support can reduce work-related stress and increase job satisfaction, leading to a more fulfilling personal and professional life.

Confidential assistance

EAPs offer a confidential route for employees to seek help without concern for stigma or job security. This confidentiality encourages more individuals to access the support they need, knowing their privacy is protected.

Access to a range of services

From legal advice to substance abuse programs, EAPs provide a comprehensive suite of services to address the diverse needs of employees. This variety ensures that employees have access to the specific type of support they require when they need it.

For employers

EAPs represent a strategic investment in the workforce, enhancing the organizational climate by prioritizing the psychological and physical health of employees. This holistic approach to employee welfare sets the stage for a thriving and dynamic work environment where both individuals and the company can achieve their full potential.

Increased productivity

By addressing and mitigating personal and professional challenges that employees face, EAPs can lead to enhanced focus and efficiency at work. A workforce that feels supported is more engaged and productive.

Reduced absenteeism

EAPs play a crucial role in reducing absenteeism by helping employees deal with personal and health-related issues more effectively. This support keeps employees healthier and more present, both mentally and physically.

Improved employee retention

Offering an EAP demonstrates an employer’s commitment to the well-being of their staff, which can boost morale and loyalty. This commitment can lead to higher retention rates, as employees are more likely to stay with a company that invests in their health and happiness.

Lower healthcare costs

By providing early intervention for mental health issues and stress, EAPs can contribute to lower overall healthcare costs for employers. Preventative support can reduce the need for more extensive medical treatment down the line.

Getting Started with EAPs

EAPs are designed to be user-friendly, easy to implement, and, best of all, simple to access. Most companies provide employees with a wide range of services through an Employee Assistance Program.

How to use EAP benefits as an employee

To start taking advantage of your Employee Assistance Program, follow the steps here.

  1. Understand your benefits: Contact your employer’s human resources department or benefits office to ask about what benefits you’re entitled to. As an employee, it’s important to understand the benefits and services that are included in your EAP program. This might mean access to mental health services like counseling and therapy, financial planning assistance, legal advice, and more.
  2. Contact your program administrator: Once you know what benefits are available through your EAP program, contact the administrator for further information about how to use them. Once you have the details, take advantage of them to maximize your EAP program.
  3. Ask about telehealth options: Many EAPs provide telehealth facilities, enabling personnel to access a mental health professional remotely from their residence or workplace during regular business hours, without having to take time away from work for an appointment. Talkspace is one example of a provider that offers online therapy through many EAPs across the country, so check with your employer if they have this option available as part of your plan.
  4. Take advantage of your plan: Most employers will also provide additional resources such as webinars and educational materials that may help you better manage stress levels at work or home life balance issues that come up from time to time. It’s important to use these resources when needed for them to be effective tools in helping maintain good overall wellness habits.

Note that some employers may require pre-authorization before you can access certain services, so be sure to ask about any potential restrictions beforehand so there won’t be any surprises down the line when trying to use your benefits package.

How to start an EAP for your company

If you’re interested in setting up an EAP within your organization, start by researching different vendors that offer EAP programs — look into things like cost structures, coverage options, customer reviews, and more.

After narrowing down which vendor seems most suited to meeting all your needs, contact them directly so further discussions can occur about exactly how everything should operate going forward.

To start an EAP for your company, complete the following steps:

  1. Determine what’s required or needed: Consider what sort of aid you’ll offer. Are there any special requirements or considerations for the program? Look for a range of services tailored to meet the individual needs of your employees.
  2. Research EAP providers: Once you have determined what services your business needs, it’s time to start researching EAP providers. Look into their qualifications and experience with providing Employee Assistance Programs that fit the size and scope of your organization. Weigh cost, customer service responsiveness, and the resources accessible when picking the most appropriate partner for your organization.
  3. Set up your program: After selecting an EAP provider, you’ll want to set up the program correctly from the beginning, so employees understand how to access services if they need them in the future. For example, make sure everyone knows about available benefits through posters around the office or emails sent out at regular intervals throughout the year, reminding employees about available resources if needed. Additionally, create clear policies regarding confidentiality procedures related to using these types of services so everyone feels comfortable participating in confidential conversations without fear of repercussions from management or coworkers.
  4. Monitor usage: It’s also important to monitor usage levels over time so you can adjust accordingly if necessary. Sometimes this means discontinuing certain programs that employees may not use enough to justify their cost.

Don’t forget to measure effectiveness by collecting feedback from participants whenever possible. This will help ensure any money spent on an EAP is not wasted and is helping improve morale, job satisfaction, and general well-being.

Online Therapy with Talkspace Through EAPs

Employee assistance programs offer a wealth of benefits to businesses — and their employees — as an added service that prioritizes and enhances mental health.

Including Talkspace’s online talk therapy services for mental health support within an EAP plan means members have access to personalized treatment from licensed therapists and psychiatrists, without ever having to leave the comfort of their own homes. This type of convenient counseling can help employees find help for mental health conditions, learn how to avoid burnout, and encourage overall employee wellness.

Sources:

  1. Published by Statista Research Department, 6 J. Share of employers offering employee assistance programs 2019. Statista. https://www.statista.com/statistics/742969/share-of-employers-offering-employee-assistance-programs/. Published July 6, 2022. Accessed March 11, 2023.
  2. Schooley, S., Afsharian, A., Dollard, M., & Brecht, O. (2022). Contextualising the Effectiveness of an Employee Assistance Program Intervention on Psychological Health: The Role of Corporate Climate. PubMed Central (PMC). https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9099973/. Published April 21, 2022. Accessed February 29th, 2024.

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Hustle Culture: The Toxic Impact on Mental Health https://www.talkspace.com/blog/hustle-culture/ Mon, 20 Feb 2023 20:25:28 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=29713 Hustle culture describes a common, modern workplace environment that emphasizes hard work and long hours as the key…

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Hustle culture describes a common, modern workplace environment that emphasizes hard work and long hours as the key to success. It’s become increasingly popular recently, with many companies encouraging their employees to put in extra effort and work hours for better results. 

However, this culture is found to harm mental health and worsen the workplace, as opposed to making organizations more productive and positive. It also makes employees feel overwhelmed at work and might even trigger mental health conditions, such as social anxiety at work or ADHD at work. Read on to learn more about the toxicity of hustle culture.

“Hustle culture is working excessively without regard for one’s self-care needs and relationships in order to reach professional success.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

What Is Hustle Culture?

Hustle culture is when a workplace environment places an intense focus on productivity, ambition, and success, with little regard for rest, self care, or any sense of work-life balance

This lifestyle has become increasingly popular in recent years as people strive to achieve their professional goals faster and more efficiently. Despite its popularity though, the on-the-go, no holds bar mindset has been linked to mental health concerns like increased anxiety, stress, and depression. Further, we now know that there’s a long-term opposite effect, decreased productivity. This toxic hustle culture has led to employees feeling burnout. 

What is toxic productivity?

Toxic productivity refers to the belief that one must constantly be productive to succeed. This can lead to burnout and physical and mental exhaustion. The idea behind toxic productivity is that you’ll get ahead quicker if you work harder than everyone else. Unfortunately, though, this isn’t always true. The toxic productivity encouraged by hustle culture can negatively affect your well-being in the long run.

Why is hustle culture glorified?

The hustle culture concept has been glamorized by entrepreneurs who are seen as “successful” because they put in long hours without taking time off for themselves or their families. These individuals are often held up as role models for aspiring business owners who may not realize how damaging it can be to prioritize work over everything else in life. 

There’s a strong correlation between social media and mental health, and social media has only made the problem even worse. Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook have made it easy for influencers and celebrities to share images of themselves working late into the night, glorifying and perpetuating a dangerous mindset among younger generations who look up to them for inspiration.

Examples of hustle culture in the workplace

One example of toxic hustle culture in the workplace is employers expecting employees to stay late or come to work early. Lofty to-do lists or demands, without enough time or resources to complete tasks, are also typical. This is one of the contributing factors to the great resignation movement.

Another example is managers prioritizing quantity over quality, sacrificing a job well done for a job that’s just, well, done. 

Finally, some companies may encourage unhealthy competition among colleagues by rewarding those who outperform, instead of focusing on collaboration, teamwork, support, and a general in-it-to-win-it mentality. All in all, such a culture is not good for any employee’s wellbeing.

The Negative Impact of Hustle Culture on Mental Health

Hustle culture has become a pervasive part of modern life, with people pushing themselves to the limit to succeed. This relentless pursuit of productivity and success can seriously affect mental health, though.

“Hustle culture has a negative impact on mental issues such as anxiety, depression, and stress. It can also cause burnout due to work-related stress and long working hours. Workers in a hustle culture have lost the ability for a work-life balance that’s critical for positive mental health.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Anxiety

Hustle culture encourages an all-or-nothing mentality that can lead to stress and anxiety at work when professional goals are not met, or deadlines are missed. In addition, the pressure to perform at maximum capacity every day is often too much for many people, leading them into a cycle of worry and fear about their prospects.

Guilt

People who subscribe to a toxic hustle culture might feel guilty if they take time off or relax. As noted earlier, social media can exacerbate this guilt. Posts from peers, family, and friends who seem successful and have an unrelenting work ethic can quickly translate to a belief that taking breaks is lazy or unproductive.

Apathetic attitude

When someone constantly strives for more without any respite, it can lead them down a dangerous path. Suddenly, nothing seems good enough or rewarding. This apathetic attitude towards life will only damage mental health in the long run.

Toxic positivity

Pushing yourself too hard also means there’s no room for failure. Even minor mistakes can be seen as catastrophic. Toxic positivity eliminates any realistic expectations about what is actually achievable in our life and at work.

High risk of illness and disease

Working too hard without rest leads to physical exhaustion. Being exhausted then causes psychological distress and increases the risk of illness. Lack of sleep, poor diet choices, and more cause weakened immune systems. Some research shows that long work weeks increase the risk of cerebrovascular and cardiovascular disease.

Work-life imbalance

Hustle culture creates an unhealthy balance between work and personal life. It emphasizes career success prioritized over everything else, including relationships with family, friends, and partners. Unfortunately, this leaves little room for self care activities like exercise or stress management techniques like yoga or meditation, which can be essential for maintaining mental health.

How to Break Free from Hustle Culture

Breaking free from hustle culture can be daunting, but it is possible. It requires a shift in mindset and behavior and a willingness to create sustainable habits that prioritize mental health over productivity. Here are some tips on how to break free from hustle culture.

Set boundaries 

Knowing how to set healthy boundaries is essential for protecting your mental health. This means setting limits on the time you spend working or engaging in work-related activities outside normal business hours. Additionally, you need to set clear expectations with colleagues and managers about when you’ll be available for work-related communication and tasks.

Take breaks

Regular breaks throughout the day help keep stress levels low and allow your mind to rest so you can remain productive without burning out. Schedule short breaks during your day where you step away from your desk, go for a walk, listen to music, or do something else that brings joy into your life.

Prioritize self care

Self care should always come before other commitments or obligations to maintain good mental health. Make sure each day includes at least one activity dedicated solely to taking care of yourself. Reading a book, journaling for mental health, running, practicing yoga/meditation, or spending time with friends are good options.

Be kind to yourself

Don’t beat yourself up if things don’t go according to plan. Instead, focus on what went well during the day and celebrate even small accomplishments, no matter how insignificant they may seem. Remember that everyone has their own unique pace when achieving goals, so don’t compare yourself with others around you — focus on doing what works best for YOU.

Escape the Toxicity of Hustle Culture with Talkspace

What is hustle culture? In short, it’s a pervasive attitude in today’s society that glorifies working hard and long hours, often at the expense of mental and physical health.

This toxic mindset has been linked to increased stress levels, burnout, and depression. To learn how to prevent burnout and break free from hustle culture and its adverse effects on mental health, Talkspace can provide support through online therapy sessions with licensed therapists.

Sources:

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What to Do When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed at Work https://www.talkspace.com/blog/overwhelmed-at-work/ Tue, 07 Feb 2023 16:23:33 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=29629 Feeling overwhelmed at work isn’t uncommon. It can be caused by several factors, including too much work, stress,…

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Feeling overwhelmed at work isn’t uncommon. It can be caused by several factors, including too much work, stress, or even just feeling like you’re not up to the task. Whatever the cause, it’s important to recognize when you’re feeling overwhelmed and take steps to address it. 

The good news is you can break the cycle and create a work-life balance that doesn’t leave you feeling overwhelmed and stressed every day. Learn how, here. Following are some tips for managing your feelings of overwhelm.

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed by Work?

Feeling overwhelmed at work can be caused by a variety of things. Having too much to do in too little time, unrealistic expectations from bosses or colleagues, lack of support and resources, or feeling like you don’t have the skills or knowledge needed to complete tasks can all be culprits.

Too much work in too little time

When there are more tasks to do than hours in the day, it can lead to feeling overwhelmed. This often happens when deadlines are tight, or workloads increase unexpectedly. Trying to fit everything into an already-full day can leave you feeling stressed and unable to focus on any task properly. For some, it could lead to longer hours to finish their tasks, which can lead to higher stress levels and job burnout.

Unrealistic expectations

Sometimes, we feel overwhelmed because our boss has set us up with goals that seem impossible or unreasonable given the amount of available time because of some misguided notion of hustle culture. Or our colleagues expect us to take on extra responsibilities without providing additional resources such as training or support staff. Feeling like you’re constantly running against an ever-moving goalpost can be exhausting and quickly become demoralizing.

Lack of support and resources

It’s difficult enough to juggle multiple projects, but it’s even more complicated when you don’t have access to the tools, resources, and information needed for success. This can mean having outdated technology, inadequate training materials, or poor budgeting for supplies. Without these things, it becomes almost impossible to achieve your goals, leading to job burnout instead of productivity.

Not having the skills needed to complete tasks

Having the necessary skill set is critical if you want to get ahead at work, but sometimes even that’s not enough. If you possess all the qualifications required but are struggling due inexperience, unfamiliarity with new technologies, or simply because you haven’t had enough practice yet, you may quickly start feeling overwhelmed. In this case, seeking guidance from someone more experienced could alleviate workplace stress and give you valuable insight.

Feeling overwhelmed at work can signify stress and burnout, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. With the right strategies and support, you can learn how to prevent burnout and take control of your workload to create a healthier balance in your life. Let’s look at some tips for feeling less overwhelmed at work.

Your mental condition affects how you work

Having social anxiety at work or ADHD at work can affect your performance. However, there are ways to cope with triggering situations. This involves communicating with your manager about what kind of work environment is ideal for you.

8 Tips for Feeling Overwhelmed at Work

Feeling overwhelmed at work can be caused by a number of factors, including too much work, stress, or feeling like you’re not up to the task. Whatever the cause, it’s important to recognize when you’re feeling overwhelmed and take steps to address it. 

“Select a few things to accomplish at work each day. Prioritize tasks in order of importance. Take breaks several times per day. Speak to your boss about reducing tasks when necessary. Make sure you get enough sleep at night so that you are energized.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

1. Select a few things to accomplish at work each day

Going into each day with a clear idea of what you must accomplish can help you avoid feeling overwhelmed. Keep your to-do list short and reasonable, and identify only the top one to three things you need to complete for that day. It can also be helpful if you have items on the list that are flexible and can be “pushed” if necessary. This practice also teaches you time management.

2. Prioritize tasks in order of importance

Make sure you prioritize tasks based on importance and urgency, so you don’t become overwhelmed with everything that needs to be done. This can also help ensure that essential tasks get done first, while smaller tasks can be put off until later.

3. Take breaks several times per day

Taking regular breaks throughout the day is proven in studies to help reduce job stress levels and give your mind time to reset and refocus on tasks. Even just 5 minutes away from your desk can make a big difference in how productive you feel when you sit back down.

4. Speak to your boss about reducing tasks when necessary

Talk openly to your boss about any of your concerns or issues related to your workload or expectations. Knowing how to talk to your boss about mental health will help them understand where you’re coming from so they can provide support as needed. Ask for realistic deadlines for projects or if they will adjust responsibilities, so there’s more balance between them.

5. Make sure you get enough sleep at night so you’re energized

There is a real connection between sleep and mental health. Research shows that not getting enough sleep at night contributes to a higher risk of mental distress. Make a sleep schedule and stick to it. Go to bed at the same time every night, and get up at the same time each morning. Keep your room dark and free of distractions an hour before bedtime, and avoid screen time and social media before bed.

6. Eat healthy and practice self care

What is self care? Self care is an integral part of staying mentally and physically in tune. When you make time for yourself, you can take on so much more, so you’ll reduce the feelings of overwhelm and have more energy and motivation at work. You can practice self care by meditating, doing yoga, going for walks, journaling for mental health, reading — do anything you enjoy that’s specifically for you. 

7. Set boundaries and take time away from work

Setting boundaries around what types of tasks or projects you’re willing to take on is key to avoiding burnout so you don’t feel overwhelmed by work. If something isn’t within your scope of responsibility or expertise, don’t be afraid to say no.

8. Delegate when you can

Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks. Delegating to others can relieve workplace stress and allow you to focus on other priorities.

How to Admit You’re Overwhelmed at Work

When it comes to feeling overwhelmed at work, admitting there’s a problem can be difficult. Still, it’s an important step to take to ensure your mental health and well-being are priorities.

Use the following checklist to determine if you’re overwhelmed at work:

  • Are you acknowledging your feelings?
  • Do you need to talk to someone you trust about your mental state at work?
  • Do you feel like you don’t have enough time for yourself?
  • Do you find you lack boundaries?
  • Are you putting your job before self care?
  • Do you work long hours and forget or refuse to take a break?

“If you notice you cannot concentrate on work, the quality of your work has decreased, you’re missing important due dates, or you’re always tired and feeling stressed, these are all signs that you are overwhelmed at work.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Manage Feelings of Overwhelm at Work with Talkspace

Are you feeling overwhelmed at work? Don’t suffer in silence. Help is help available. Get support and guidance by signing up for online therapy with Talkspace today. 

Talkspace offers personalized, one-on-one therapy sessions with licensed therapists who can provide practical tools that help you manage job stress levels. Therapy can equip you with skills to cope better when you’re feeling overwhelmed at work. Don’t let yourself become a victim of burnout symptoms — take control of your mental health now with help from an experienced therapist.

Sources:

  1. Blasche G, Arlinghaus A, Crevenna R. The impact of rest breaks on subjective fatigue in physicians of the General Hospital of Vienna. Wiener klinische Wochenschrift. 2021;134(3-4):156-161. doi:10.1007/s00508-021-01949-1. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8857152/. Accessed December 21, 2022. 
  2. Blackwelder A, Hoskins M, Huber L. Effect of inadequate sleep on frequent mental distress. Preventing Chronic Disease. 2021;18. doi:10.5888/pcd18.200573. https://www.cdc.gov/pcd/issues/2021/20_0573.htm. Accessed December 21, 2022. 

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Workplace Bullying: How to Identify & Deal with It https://www.talkspace.com/blog/workplace-bullying/ Mon, 03 Oct 2022 22:26:24 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=27712 Workplace bullying and adult bullying, in general, are big problems in the United States. In fact, 49% of…

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Workplace bullying and adult bullying, in general, are big problems in the United States. In fact, 49% of Americans say that they’ve been impacted by bullying in the workplace. Workplace bullying describes a pattern of mistreatment within a work environment that includes behaviors like personal attacks, exclusion, and inappropriately harsh criticism. This type of bullying can have a lasting impact on a person’s health and well-being. 

While some bullies have multiple targets, others harass a single person. Workplace bullying isn’t always obvious, so a bully’s behavior may go undetected if it’s not reported. 

Just because this type of bullying often involves adults doesn’t mean that it’s something that people always know how to handle. The truth is, the psychological effects of bullying can be damaging and painful, regardless of age. Read on to learn how to identify and stop bullying at work.

Identifying Workplace Bullying

Bullying in the workplace can take many forms and creates a toxic workplace and environment. While some bullies may be openly hostile towards targets, others may behave in subtler ways. While the term harassment describes a single instance of behavior, bullying is persistent, repeated acts and aggression against a victim.

Types of bullying

  • Intimidation: A bully can intimidate a target by threatening or spying on them or by excluding them socially.
  • Verbal abuse: Verbal bullying can include harsh criticism, direct insults, mocking and offensive jokes, malicious gossip, verbal sexual harassment, and humiliation.
  • Work interference: Bullies may sabotage a coworker, blame them for mistakes, or take credit for work and ideas.
  • Retaliation: Sometimes when bullying is reported, it leads to increased workplace harassment resulting in heavier workloads, unfair scheduling, abusive conduct, or even the denial of a promotion.
  • Institutional bullying: Some workplaces have policies that are damaging to workers, including forced overtime or singling out workers who fail to meet goals.

Warning signs of workplace bullying

Ultimately, all types of bullying can share similar warning signs to a certain extent, but some of the following are specific to the workplace environment. Knowing the signs can help if you suspect someone is being bullied at work. It can also help you identify if you are dealing with a bully. 

  • Being ignored or excluded: The target of a workplace bully may be ignored by co-workers or excluded from events without an explanation.
  • Close monitoring: Bullies may constantly monitor a target’s work, making it difficult for them to complete tasks or efficiently do their job.
  • Unusual work assignments: Bullying behavior can include pointless work assignments or being given work without training. Failure to complete tasks may result in criticism, punishment, or ridicule.
  • Dismissing or minimizing concerns: When bullying is confronted or reported, the behavior may be downplayed by the workplace bully or other employees.
  • Missing items: Personal belongings or work-related items may inexplicably go missing.
  • Public embarrassment: Bullies often berate, humiliate, or mock targets in front of their coworkers, upper management, or customers.

Effects of Workplace Bullying on Health

Bullying in the workplace isn’t just uncomfortable and embarrassing. It can have a lasting impact on someone’s physical and emotional well-being. Research shows that workplace bullying can predict future mental health problems like anxiety and depression

Not only does bullying have lasting consequences for victims, it can also be damaging to the workplace environment and culture — even after the bullying has stopped.

Physical effects

Bullying at work can increase workplace stress and anxiety, which may lead to physical symptoms like:

  • Elevated blood pressure
  • Headaches
  • Loss of appetite
  • Nausea and digestive issues
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Ulcers
  • Muscle aches
  • Heartburn

Research has also linked the stress of bullying to increased risk for Type II diabetes. People who suffer from chronic stress are more likely to develop heart disease, too. While bullying is sometimes treated as harmless, the fact is it can have a serious and lasting impact on the health of the victim.

Mental effects

Being the target of bullying can negatively affect both mood and emotional well-being. Effects may include:

  • A loss of self-esteem
  • Losing interest in activities
  • Depression and anxiety
  • Constantly dreading work 
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Panic attacks
  • Suicidal ideation 

These effects tend to become more pronounced the longer the bullying continues, and they can persist even after the behavior has stopped. Victims of bullying may need to work with mental health professionals to overcome self-doubt and rebuild self-confidence.

“If you or someone you care about has been bullied, we encourage you to speak with a licensed therapist to process your experience. When we experience something traumatizing or negative, we need to process the experience and integrate what has happened. The guidance of a trained licensed therapist can help you through this process and let you move forward with your life. You deserve support!”

Talkspace therapist Kate Rosenblatt, MA, LPC, LMHC

How workplace bullying affects the workplace

When an employer fails to respond to bullying in an appropriate and timely way, it can have severely negative consequences, such as:

  • Higher rate of employee absences
  • Increased turnover rates
  • A decline in productivity 
  • Decreased morale
  • Lost trust of employees
  • Legal action costs

Effects on job performance

Bullying is a significant distraction that can interfere with a person’s ability to do their job. When someone’s being bullied, they may be less productive and spend their time:

  • Trying to avoid the bully
  • Worrying about future abuse
  • Struggling with anxiety
  • Seeking support from co-workers
  • Attempting to defend themselves from the bully

Ongoing harassment from a bully can be traumatizing, making it difficult for bullied workers to focus on tasks. People who are bullied at work are more likely to make mistakes and will often take longer to complete their work, which can decrease the productivity of the entire team.

Effects on workplace environment

Bullying can be disruptive to the entire workplace culture and have a negative impact on all workers, even those who aren’t being bullied. It creates a hostile work environment for all. Workplace bullying can:

  • Increase employee turnover 
  • Harm the company’s public image
  • Interfere with employee teamwork
  • Encourage poor behavior in employees
  • Lead to a hostile work environment

How to Deal with Workplace Bullying 

When people are targeted by bullies at work, they often feel helpless. If you’ve been the victim of workplace bullying, it’s important to remember that you’re not at fault. The right strategies and tools can help you cope with a bully’s behavior and protect your wellbeing.

  • Document the bullying: Write down the details of the event every time you’re bullied at work. Be sure to include the time and date of the incident and the nature of what happened. Detail the names of workers who may have witnessed the bullying in your reports.
  • Lay down boundaries: The next time a bully does something inappropriate, make it clear that you won’t tolerate this treatment any longer. Let them know that you’ll be reporting the behavior, and if it continues, you’re ready and willing to escalate things.
  • Report bullying: Report any intimidating or inappropriate behavior to your employer if a bully fails to respect your boundaries. Provide the employer with documentation of the abuse and let them know that you expect the behavior to be dealt with immediately. 
  • Seek outside support: It can be tough to stand up to a bully’s bad behavior, which is why a strong support system is crucial. Talk to friends, family members, or mental health professionals about what you’re going through. In extreme cases, if you’re not seeing results or getting the support you need from your employer, you might need to be prepared to seek legal counsel. 

Helping Someone Deal with Workplace Bullying

It isn’t always easy to speak up when you see bullying in the workplace. You may be afraid that confronting a bully will make you a target, but it’s important to remember that ignoring bullying will only make the issue worse. 

Don’t hesitate to report bullying to your employer, even if you weren’t directly impacted. If one of your coworkers is being repeatedly bullied, your report could significantly improve their life. 

It’s common for bullies to gaslight targets by denying or diminishing their actions and behaviors. This makes some bullying victims hesitant to report abuse. When multiple people speak up about bullying, it’s much harder for bullies to deny, defend, or continue their bad behavior. 

“If you’re the victim of workplace bullying, knowing your rights and the resources available to you can be critical to determine the next steps needed to heal. Speaking with a therapist about your experience and your options, as well as the pros and cons of those options, may help you take the next right step for you.”

Talkspace therapist Kate Rosenblatt, MA, LPC, LMHC

The effects of workplace bullying aren’t just limited to victims. When there’s a bully in any environment, it harms everyone. That’s why it’s crucial for companies to establish policies aimed at how to prevent bullying.

If you’re being bullied at work, we know how hard it can be to speak up. Don’t be afraid to take steps to protect your mental health and well-being. With a strong support system, you can recover from bullying and improve your work environment.

If you feel that you’re dealing with workplace bullying, a toxic workplace, and don’t have a good support system, you might want to consider therapy and access a mental health professional who can help you develop a strategy. 

Therapy can offer you guidance and support from experienced mental health experts. You deserve to live and work in a peaceful, safe environment. Nobody has the right to take those things from you. Learning to navigate the hostility you’re facing can help you realize that you’re strong and can face anything, even your bully. 

Talkspace is a therapy platform that can help you get the critical therapy you need to manage workplace bullying. Talk to an online therapist today.

Sources:

1. 2021 WBI U.S. Workplace Bullying Survey. Workplacebullying.org. https://workplacebullying.org/2021-wbi-survey/. Published 2021. Accessed July 17, 2022.  

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24 Ways to Prevent Burnout https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-prevent-burnout/ Fri, 23 Sep 2022 16:00:39 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=27511 When life’s demands overburden you and stress in the workplace piles up, it can leave you emotionally and…

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When life’s demands overburden you and stress in the workplace piles up, it can leave you emotionally and physically exhausted. What you feel might be more than normal daily life or excessive stress. You might be experiencing what’s known as burnout. 

Employee burnout is very common, but this can also happen due to personal responsibilities. If you get to the point of burnout, you may feel completely maxed out, at your limit, or simply just too drained from dealing with your everyday responsibilities. Whether it’s personal or workplace burnout, chronic stress can negatively impact your productivity at work, work-life balance, and overall mental health.

Since this kind of fatigue is common, especially in high-stress jobs, it’s important to learn how to avoid burnout. The following 25 suggestions will help you recharge before you become totally overwhelmed. Keep reading to learn more about how to prevent burnout and live a peaceful, rewarding life. 

1. Recognize the Early Signs of Burnout

The sooner you recognize burnout symptoms, the easier it’ll be for you to get your stress levels in check. Early signs of burnout include: 

  • Physical exhaustion
  • Mood swings
  • Increased anxiety
  • Lack of enthusiasm for activities you normally enjoy

Due to an overlap in symptoms, it can be difficult to distinguish burnout from depression. However, if you’re struggling to determine if it’s burnout or depression you are experiencing, your best bet is to connect with a licensed therapist for help.

“Burnout often starts out with small, easy-to-ignore cues. One of the best things you can do for yourself to prevent burnout is identifying how you function when your emotional “tank” is full. This way, you have a guidepost to measure how things are going over time.”

Talkspace therapist Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD, C-DBT

2. Exercise Regularly

Whether you hit the gym, go for a jog, or take a dance class, exercise can improve your physical and mental wellbeing, enhancing your ability to cope with excessive stress. Studies have shown that regular yoga sessions, for example, can significantly lower nurses’ stress levels and signs of burnout.

3. Learn to Manage Your Workload

A big part of preventing burnout is learning to manage your workload more effectively. Prioritize tasks by order of importance, and don’t hesitate to delegate responsibilities when you have too much on your plate. 

4. Give Yourself Mental Breaks

Not only can working nonstop leave you feeling frazzled and fried, but it can also actually make you less productive. Studies show that taking short breaks throughout the day can help you feel less fatigued, even when working long hours.

5. Practice Self Care

Many people who experience burnout have neglected their own needs. Don’t be afraid to make yourself a priority. Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of sleep, and set aside time to do things you enjoy every day. Self-care is an important part of our whole mind-body health. 

“If you’ve already found yourself dealing with the frustrations of burnout, be sure to give yourself grace — know that you’re doing the best you can and you deserve to take care of yourself. Take breaks where you can and consider reaching out for therapy to address the root cause.”

Talkspace therapist Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD, C-DBT

6. Set Clear Boundaries 

Learning to set boundaries and ask for help can be incredibly powerful. When you don’t have clear boundaries established, especially when balancing your work and personal lives, it can feel like you’re always on the clock. Weak or nonexistent boundaries with friends, family members, and romantic partners will almost always become a major source of stress.

7. Find Privacy

If you can’t seem to figure out how to stop burnout, it might be because you don’t have any time to yourself. Spend time alone each day so you can focus on important tasks without any distractions. Try doing a short meditation, writing in a journal, or going for a short walk by yourself. A little time can go a long way in giving you mental space and clarity. 

8. Refresh Your Skills 

An excellent way to prevent employee burnout is to keep learning new things. Any task can be overwhelming if you’re not sure what you’re supposed to be doing. That’s why you should regularly work to refresh your skills and keep them sharp. From classes to workplace training programs, ensure you have the skills you need for your job.

9. Find a Hobby

A hobby can be an excellent way to relax and unwind after a long, stressful day. Whether you work on an art project, learn a new skill, or set aside time for reading, hobbies can help prevent burnout and improve your quality of life.

10. Avoid Negative Self-Talk

Do you tend to see yourself in a negative light? Are you hard on yourself? Do you set unhealthy or unreasonable expectations for yourself? Engaging in negative self-talk can make you believe that you’re not capable of dealing with challenges, which can contribute to feelings of burnout. The next time you catch yourself thinking something negative, try to reframe your thoughts into something more productive. Catch yourself doing something right every day. 

11. Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness, a style of thinking that asks you to focus on what’s happening in the present, is frequently recommended to people interested in learning how to avoid burnout. It can help you stay objective and calm even when dealing with high stress levels.

12. Try Meditation 

Meditation for stress is an effective way to cope with both short- and long-term stress. Taking just a few minutes to meditate can help you relax and clear your mind of negative thoughts.

13. Improve Your Sleep Hygiene 

Have you ever woken up feeling tired, even after a full night of sleep? Healthy sleep habits and avoiding distractions in the evenings can help you improve your sleep hygiene so you can sleep more deeply and get ample rest at night. Go to bed at the same time every night, follow the same (healthy) routine, and avoid screen time before crawling into bed at night. 

14. Start Journaling 

Journaling for your mental health can help you express your creativity and put you in touch with your own feelings, which can help you figure out how to prevent burnout. Some journaling techniques, like gratitude journaling, can even help you look at your life more positively.

15. Recite Positive Affirmations 

At the start of each day, look in the mirror and say something positive. Repeating positive affirmations can reduce stress and boost confidence levels. According to research, it can even help you think more creatively and solve problems more effectively. 

16. Let Yourself Laugh

People often say that laughter is the best medicine, and that old adage may be truer than you realize. Research has shown that laughing and smiling can instantly reduce stress and improve your mood.

17. Relax with Breathing Exercises 

Part of learning how to stop burnout is finding ways to manage everyday stress. Breathing exercises are a simple and effective way to calm down when you start to feel overwhelmed.

18. Remind Yourself to Relax 

When you lead a busy life, it’s easy to get so caught up in what you’re doing that you completely forget to relax. Find ways to remind yourself to take the occasional break. You can set a timer, use a reminder app, or even make relaxation time a part of your daily schedule.

19. Set Aside Time to Connect with Others 

Social support significantly reduces the effects of burnout. It’s crucial to make time for family and friends, even when your schedule is busy. A quick phone call or a coffee date can make a big difference.

20. Reframe Negative Situations 

There’s no way to completely remove stress from your life, but if you’re interested in figuring out how to avoid burnout, you can learn to change your perspective. When you have a negative experience, try to look at the event positively. Even bad situations can be learning experiences. Adopting an everything-happens-for-a-reason mindset can do wonders for your psyche and ability to recover from life’s occasional setbacks. 

21. Start Meal Planning 

It can be hard to find time to cook when you’re busy, which leads many people to reach for unhealthy foods. If you start meal planning, you’ll have healthy food at your fingertips to keep your body and mind fueled throughout the week. 

22. Get Outside

When you’re starting to feel frazzled, take a break and step outside. You can breathe fresh air, get vitamin D from the sun, and maybe even work in some exercise. When you head back indoors, you’ll be able to approach tasks differently.

23. Ask for Help When You Need It 

One person can only do so much. If your current schedule is overwhelming, you should never hesitate to reach out to others for help. A little support can go a long way.

24. Start Therapy 

If you’ve already started to see burnout symptoms in your own life, you may want to consider therapy. A therapist can help you cultivate a more positive mindset, identify areas causing harm in your life, manage your stress, and set boundaries, all of which can help prevent burnout. 

Seeking Help with Therapy 

Everyone experiences stress and emotional exhaustion, but for some, it can become overwhelming and eventually lead to job burnout. When you’re emotionally and physically drained, you may feel trapped in your situation and develop a negative outlook. You need coping and stress management skills to learn how to recover from burnout in your work and personal life.

Seeking professional treatment through Talkspace can offer you the best chance to find a way to manage your feelings and learn how to avoid burnout in the future. Talkspace is an online, affordable, accessible, and effective online therapy platform designed to make getting help easy and convenient. Learn more about Talkspace today. 

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